Kain Ramsay Blog
The delight of immediate happiness is alluring and addictive which is why people seek it out as much as possible.However, focusing on pursuing short-term happiness over long-term growth is a waste of your life and potential.
Are you still angry at someone for what they did to you years ago: an unkind parent, a colleague who bullied you or a friend who backstabbed you? Everyone holds negatives feelings towards someone or something. The question is, who is your grudge hurting more: you or them?
Being more independent and less co-dependent is extremely important for developing confidence and overcoming unhealthy coping mechanisms.
Stop hoping for the future to turn out how you dream it to and start making it happen instead.
Conforming to the masses is an ancient survival tactic. Nowadays, however, many people conform out of fear of rejection and isolation. The cost of this fear is a loss of uniqueness, individuality and authenticity.
The victim mindset chains you to the belief that your past defines you and will always define you. It makes you think that your mental health, skills, personality, habits, and expectations have more control over you than you do. The victim mindset wants you to believe you are powerless and that you cannot determine and redirect your future or redefine your worth.